There are a whole lot of people out there who are young, successful and looking forward to settle in their lives. Talking of marriage, everyone is aware that at one point or the other, most of us wish to have a partner for life. But the biggest question is when the right time to get married is?
Frankly speaking, there are no specified parameters like time and age to get married. It's your instincts that guide you the best whether to go for it or not. However, there are a few signs and situations which can serve as hints for a couple to decide on the wedding thing. Some of the marriage hints mentioned in here can be kept in mind before finally giving it a go.
Ask yourself a few questions, for instance, am I in love? Well there may be a thousand other reasons to get married but the one which matter most is 'love'. Marriage is a social union of two people, one can't afford to undo it easily once it is done. So be very careful on that part.
The next question may be is it your age and social pressure which is bothering you to get married and this is the reason you just want to slide into it? If yes, please stop right here. Age should not be the criteria to get married unless you are a school going minor and you still depend on your parents for finances.
The next thing that comes into play is money. Can you support a family? Obviously once you are married, it's not only about you. There are other people in the scene, it may be your partner including children. No one wants to have bitter family experiences, so it would be better to design a practical, budget plan and test it before the marriage.
Think about where will you and your partner go after the wedding? Is it easy for you to talk about personal issues with your partner? Are you comfortable with your future spouse's relatives?
Answer yourself these questions and then decide for yourself when is the right time for you to get married.
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